No More ‘Con”

It used to be that there was always one person assigned “the con.” “Who has the con?” Davinder would ask. “You have the con, Chacah!” Lucinda would say when Rin showed up for babysitting. If you had the “con”sole (or “con”trol), you were in charge of making sure Austen didn’t get into any danger or break anything; you always needed to be aware of exactly where she was and what she was doing — and often you had to feed and diaper her solo.

Now Austen wanders all over the house (except for rooms that are closed off to her by child safety door knobs). She goes upstairs and downstairs by herself, chatting with Mama in the master bedroom for a while and then, on her own, returning downstairs to see what Dada is eating at the kitchen table. She’s no longer constantly monitored. Although, during naps and at night, Mama and Dada still watch and listen to the video monitor. Maybe they’ll give it up by the time Austen’s a teen.

When Mama is home alone with her, Austen is always being checked on and never left by herself for long, but it’s not such a big deal for Mama to go downstairs and get something. There’s not so much worry, especially when Austen can be heard talking or singing or making noises the majority of the time.

Focus on Behavior

From birth, Austen focused on physical development. Kicking legs, using hands, pulling up, cruising, walking, running, climbing and now jumping.

At around a year, she started focusing on speech, first understanding it and then using it. She now constructs new sentences every day.

Currently, her focus is on behavior and what she is and isn’t supposed to do. As she lies down to sleep, she alternates between singing current Music Together songs and talking to herself about stuff she’s learned that day: “Don’t kick Mama,” “Don’t pull Guss’ tale,” “Say hi to your friends,” “Go pee pee in the potty,” “Don’t eat the soap. It doesn’t taste good” …

We have a ghost!

After handing over the Disney scrapbook to Austen and Dada, Mama noticed some major damage the next day:  pages were halfway torn out.  Dada insists Austen didn’t do it (although Austen has no beef about admitting to anything Mama accuses her of.   “Austen did it!” she cries.).  Perhaps the ghost of Scout Louise chewed on it.  She always liked to “put her signature” on Mama’s book.  We miss you, Scout! 

Austen gets a Rocket Ship — Adventures in Pottying

For the last couple weeks Mama has been telling Austen that she’d get the Little Einstein’s Rocket Ship that she saw at Target as soon as she used the potty. Austen finally caught on and, yesterday morning, she started repeating over and over “Go pee pee in the potty and get a rocket ship.” Finally, Mama got the hint and out came the potty. Austen used it once. Later that day she claimed her rocket ship at Menlo Park Target, with the help of both Mama and Dada, who tried to convince her to get something cheaper.

Today Austen told Mama that she didn’t want to use the potty anymore. “Austen wants to wear a diapey.” She has her rocket ship and now she’s done with it.