Fourteen-Month Update: “Hi!”

When Dada arrives home from work, Austen welcomes him at the door with a resounding “Hi!” — spoken with the perky enthusiasm of the Legally Blond character. Her greeting is loud and clear and decipherable in any room of the house.

Austen will wave and say “Hi!” to anyone, including perfect strangers she passes on the street. Her waving sessions go on for a while as she waits for reciprocation and often elicits smiles and exclamations.

Austen loves her bath, particularly playing with and chewing on her bath toys. Dada reports that she gets excited just seeing the tub filling with water.

She also gets excited when Elmo’s World comes on Sesame Street. She walks around holding her large, life-size Elmo doll.

There’s even more hugging these day. People, not just stuffed animals, get short hugs. Mama and Dada love this reward for all their care and devotion to Austen.

Austen signs sporadically (signing ‘more’ even though it’s only been shown to her a half dozen times) but mostly she points and says “Dis dat?” meaning “What’s that?”

If you ask Austen whether she’s sleepy, she confirms that she is by waving bye-bye and walking toward her bedroom. Her realization that she’s tired is a great step forward for Austen, who’s always had trouble with both falling asleep and staying asleep.

When Austen throws or drops something, when she falls down or someone else stumbles, Austen always says, “Uh oh!” She knows exactly what the phrase means and uses it everyday.

This months, Austen enjoyed her first taste of chocolate: a chocolate graham cracker given to her at a MOMS Club of Edison playdate. Her favorite foods include banana, apple, grapes, cantalope, string cheese, ham, chicken, lentils, rice, pasta, string beans, and corn. She snacks on cheese crackers, cheese puffs, sweet pea puffs, freeze dried apples, and freeze dried corn.

Cleaning up! Now Austen doesn’t just dump things and knock things down. She puts them together and puts them away.

Austen can now do some preliminary shape sorting. This really impresses Mama. Austen is such a fast learner. She learns things (like kicking a ball or putting a circle into the shape sorter) within a few tries.

Gymboree is still Austen’s favorite class, although Music Together on Saturdays with Mama AND Dada is a close second. At Gymboree, Austen loves being under the parachute and slapping the air log. She impresses all with her ability to crawl up slides and ladders. At Music Together Class, she enjoys running around in circles, stomping her feet and running to get a musical instrument when the toy bin comes out. Sometimes she has a hard time giving the instruments back during cleanup but she’s improving with each class.

Austen now loves to push things around, including her heavy stationary toys, which she slides from room to room.

This is Austen’s reaction to not getting what she wants. Mama and Dada have decided that it may be time to start 30-second time outs. When you hold Austen’s hand and try to get her to walk away from something she shouldn’t be into, she goes limp and sinks to the floor, forcing you to pick her up and carry her away, which causes much complaining.

Hugs For Grandpa Earl

Austen continues to demand attention from Grandpa Earl, although he does not seem to encourage this. She reaches for him and insists on being picked up and held … even when Mommy or Daddy are already carrying her. If she keeps this up, she’s been promised a Shetland Pony.

Mommy is still waiting for Grandpa Earl to give her one compliment, the first of her lifetime. “You sure are a good mother, Lucinda!” would do.

Grandpa and Dolly were visiting from Friday to Sunday and rode to Erin’s and Emma’s Birthday Party with Mommy, Daddy and Austen.

Very Strong!

Austen went to get some shots today (including the preservative-free flu shot) and the nurse commented that she sees children Austen’s age all day long and Austen is “very strong!” Obviously, Austen does not cooperate when getting shots, straining her arms and legs to try to get away.

Mommy noticed that mirroring Austen’s feelings — “You don’t like it! You don’t want to get any shots!” — seemed to help a lot. Austen understands a lot of what is being said to her. And she tries new words everyday, even phrases like “Thank you, Dada!” and “Happy Halloween!” She’s an expert as saying “Hi” and “Bye” accompanied by waves. After the crying was over, she waved goodbye to the nurse. No resentment.

Trick or Treating

After countless Halloween parties, get-togethers and events, Austen finally got to go trick or treating. She got into her pumpkin costume (you may have seen a picture or two) and off we went.

We started by visiting our neighbors. The first few houses were a little scary; Austen was reserved and fussy. At the next few houses, she was comfy being held by Dada while being handed some candy. Several houses later on a different street, she started smiling, waving hi and bye and reaching in to the hosts’ buckets and carefully pulling out a piece of candy. By the time we made it to the final round of houses, as soon as someone came to the door, Austen already had her arm outstretched ready to grab the candy, followed by some waving and babling.

Interestingly enough, several people instructed Austen to only take one piece. I guess they didn’t realize she couldn’t really understand them or even eat the candy. One person insisted that a baby like Austen must take take a Three Musketeers bar instead of a Heath Bar. Go figure! Austen just liked holding the crinkly wrappers.